Wire tone frequency, tone amplitude, and audio gain through the live control path so the UI's live-update behavior matches the engine.

This changes the generator live params to carry tone and gain values, propagates them through Engine.UpdateConfig and txBridge.UpdateConfig, and extends the control-plane patch types accordingly.

It also refines the control API behavior:
- avoid holding the server config mutex across tx.UpdateConfig()
- report live=true only when a request contains at least one genuinely live-applicable field

Together these fixes align the UI semantics with the actual runtime behavior and remove a lock hazard in the config update path.